"Life's too short to stay in a situation that doesn't light you up."

— Paula

Every woman deserves to live a life FILLED with

Hi, I’m Paula Lesso, a divorce coach dedicated to helping women like you navigate the challenges of divorce and reclaim your happiness. I’ve been through it all—marriage, divorce, and rediscovery—and I know firsthand the journey of finding happiness and fulfillment.

It wasn't always ideal...

For years, I thought my marriage was comfortable, but the passion was gone. When it ended, I felt lost and unsure of who I was. That painful experience became my turning point, leading me to a path of self-discovery, growth, and true happiness. Now, I’m here to help you find your own path—the one that you desire.

Why I serve

After my divorce...

I had to relearn how to truly be happy. Now, as a former husband-pleaser turned divorce survivor, I’m living life for me! I noticed so many other women putting themselves on the back burner too, and *snap* just like that, I found my purpose. Empowering women to rediscover their strength and create a future they love is more than just being a guide or coach to me. It is my calling.

My Phiosophy

The 3H's to Happiness

The secret to transitioning through this difficult time quickly lies in a magical mix of physical movement, mindset shifting, and tapping into the heart. My coaching is grounded in the 3H’s to Happiness:

head

Clarity and confident decision-making.

heart

Self-confidence, self-love, and self-awareness.

health

Taking care of your body to fuel and energize your mind and spirit.

The only way to move through pain is to move.

— Unknown

Everyday fitness is my survival mode.

Consistent fitness and movement—any type of movement—has carried me through life’s ups and downs. I believe that when you move your body, you can move through anything mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Movement is an important part of our work together.

Outside of coaching, I’m an avid runner, CrossFit athlete and triathlete, winning several races in my age classification. I love spending time outdoors, exploring new places, and engaging in public speaking to inspire and empower women.

If you’re feeling unhappy in your marriage, in a divorce, or have been through a divorce, I’m here to support you on a journey towards a happier and more fulfilling life.

Take control of your life—the one you desire.